Dempsey Ray Kunselman – pittsburgh model

Q: Where were you born and raised?
“I was born and raised in Kittanning, a small town about 45 minutes north of Pittsburgh.”

Q: Where are you presently located?
“I just moved to Shadyside a couple of months ago.”

Q: Interested in moving or are you happy where you live?
“I absolutely love Pittsburgh. The more I live here the more I realize how much it has to offer. Having said that though, I don’t plan on living here after school…but maybe sometime later on in life.”

Q: Are you out? If so how old were you when you came out to your parents/family?
“I am out, if I wasn’t I doubt I’d be admitting it through a magazine haha. Anyways, I was 18 when I came out to some of the people who are closest to me.”

Q: Was it hard for you to accept the fact you were gay?
“Yea, it was. I grew up in a small, conservative town and went to a church that preached against homosexuality. Growing up, I had this image of myself and the person I was ‘suppose’ to be… and when things don’t match up with your feelings on the inside…it can be tough.”

Q: How understanding and supportive was your family when you told them you were gay?
“My sister and mom have been great, It has been an adjustment… especially for my mom, but she has really come a long way. I’m happy to clear up any misconceptions she might have about the gay community just so she has a better understanding. There are still people in my family who I haven’t told. I’m sure they’ve questioned it haha but coming out is a process… and that process is different for everyone.”

Q: How comfortable are you being gay and has being gay effective your life in any way? Positive or negative.
“I think I am finally at a place in my life where I can say that I’m very comfortable with who I am. Anyone struggling with their sexuality knows how frustrating and hard it can be, but, once you get through the thick of it all, so many good things can come from it. Personally, I feel as though its made me stronger as a person, more accepting of those who are different than me, and I’m proud that I stuck it out even when I felt like it would never get better.”

Q: Are you single?
“Currently single”, Dempsey sighed then laughed, “I don’t mind it though.”

Q: What does a guy have to do to impress you?
“Just be nice! Haha I’ve met a few people who are very forward and it’s a huge turn off. Someone outgoing and who can carry a conversation is always nice to see. I like people who are genuine and who are actually interested in getting to know who I am.”

Q: How do you feel about hookups, threesomes, orgies?
“Personally, I don’t have any interest in threesomes or orgies. I’m a very non-judgmental, ‘to each their own’ type of person and therefore I don’t condone those who do, but I would rather just be intimate with one person… someone I’m interested in on more than just a superficial level.”

Q: Are you smooth all over? Trim? Hairy?
“I do some man-scaping. haha so I guess trim.”

Q: Bar person, club, or more so stay at home watch movies or all of thee above?
“Um, I’d say all three. I love staying at home, curling up on the couch and watching a movie…but there’s nothing better than going out with a bunch of friends and having a good time.”

Q: What college are you attending and what are you studying?
“I’m a dual business major at the University of Pittsburgh.”

Q: Is there a specific field you are aiming to get into after you complete your degree/degrees?
“Still undecided… I’ve considered everything from law to music management. I’m trying to find something to be passionate about…something that I will love but also keep me financially stable. It’s a big decision and I like to keep my options open.”

Q: Where do you see yourself or hope to see yourself five years from now?
“I’d like to be living in a city I love, doing work that I love, and enjoying myself. It’d be nice to be in a committed relationship as well but, at this point, that’s not the most important thing to me.”

Q: Boxers, boxer briefs, or whitey tighties?
“Boxer briefs.”

Q: What kind of guys are you attracted to?
“Personality wise: I like guys who are outgoing, funny, genuine, considerate, fun-loving, and smart.
Physically: I’m usually attracted to scruffy, tall, fit, and handsome?”, he laughed, “good style is always a plus.”

Q: Are there things about the gay community that bother you?
“Um.. I dunno. The stereotype that goes along with the gay community can be quite taxing sometimes because people place you in categories before they even know you…basing their assumptions on the simple fact that you’re gay…that goes along with every community though. It’s inescapable. Yes, I’m gay… but there is so much more to a person than their sexuality and it’s frustrating when people don’t realize that.”

Q: Is there any advice you’d give people that are about to come out and are their certain things they should expect when they “enter the gay world”?
“My advice would be to just not change the person you are. People love to place stereotypes on groups of people and then, consequently, a lot of people in these groups feel as though they must form to fit that stereotype in order to belong. But, the fact is, we are all different. We have different interests, different values, and we shouldn’t compromise these things just because we are gay. Oh and I’d also like to say ‘Welcome !’”